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Reincarnation of the continuous type is the best spiritual theory

Reincarnation forces one to accept responsibility for the reality one finds oneself in. Most spiritual beliefs in this spiritually backwards world do not respect the reality we are in right now enough and this is not good. Life is very challenging and one has to become really strong and aware spiritually to handle it. It goes in cycles within this life and beyond this life. One has to own the challenging conditions one finds oneself in in order to heal and overcome them.

Fantasy beliefs may feel better, but mastering reality and it’s challenges brings about more positive results. Believing in continuous reincarnation takes a lot of spiritual maturity to handle and thus reap it’s benefits. Having either another life or another cycle within this life gives us other opportunities to change and improve the pattern we find ourselves in. Cycles of abuse including self abuse can be ended and toxic energy can be healed. Miracles can happen when one gets an extremely strong spiritual grip on reality so that one can better figure out challenging situations and thus make the most of them..

No one lives forever, so life will eventually end, but with the cyclical nature of reality each end results in a new beginning. With each new cycle one can take what one has learned from the past cycle to help one reach a higher level of competence in handling the challenges that reality in the new cycle offers you and be better able to contribute ones value to make the current reality around you that you share with others a better one and help others to do the same.

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by astrogoodwin on February 10, 2021  •  Permalink
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Posted by astrogoodwin on February 10, 2021

https://astrogoodwin.com/2021/02/10/reincarnation-of-the-continuous-type-is-the-best-spiritual-theory/

Dealing with victimization in a spiritually backwards world

We live in a spiritually backwards world, where abuse and victimization is to be expected. People who abuse or assault others would like to believe that there are no true victims except when they become a victim as a consequence of their own misbehavior.

People who do not work hard to become stronger spiritually through improving their spiritual theories and training techniques will not have the spiritual strength/character or intuition to defend themselves from harm or stay clear of it. Most people in this world victimize themselves due to the bad habits they maintain. Enabling bad habits or abusive behavior in others is a form of self abuse.

Giving to others that are not worth while causes is a waste of resources that could be used to help others that are seriously working hard to improve their situation spiritually in a way that they can themselves become a positive force for good in this world. Do not waste your valuable spiritual energy on those that will abuse the effort or resources you are able to contribute. Do not just throw money away, but make sure you invest in worthwhile causes whether they are charitable institutions or individuals.

Some people will often play victim in order to get others to support their bad behavior or habits, rather than do the very hard spiritual work required by them to improve their situation, so that they can actually become a contributing member of our society, and able to help others also move in a more positive spiritual direction.

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by astrogoodwin on December 29, 2020  •  Permalink
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Posted by astrogoodwin on December 29, 2020

https://astrogoodwin.com/2020/12/29/dealing-with-victimization-in-a-spiritually-backwards-world/

The main reason we all need to advance a lot further spiritually

Our overindulgence in things that harm our health and wellbeing on this planet is really adding to the serious problems that exist on this spiritually backward planet. We must advance further spiritually so that we will develop the will power and desire to do things that will help us to become really healthy and thus better contribute to the health of the planet we exist on! When we abuse ourselves health wise, we will also automatically abuse others through our spiritual incompetence! We need to become more competent spiritually by improving our spiritual programming/theories and training techniques. We need to make being healthy a much higher priority! We are not just instinctual beings as science often like to limit us to by devaluing the spiritual! Religions that lock people into certain beliefs systems really limits their followers the ability to improve the spiritual theories that program them! Science and technology has really advanced and changed our world recent history, spiritually we need to make similar advancement! I have so many blogs(over 200 found below this one)on wordpress that address this area that it would be good for people to take the time to skim through them!

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by astrogoodwin on July 16, 2019  •  Permalink
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Posted by astrogoodwin on July 16, 2019

https://astrogoodwin.com/2019/07/16/the-main-reason-we-all-need-to-advance-a-lot-further-spiritually/

Sexual energy and intimacy are not that limited by ones anatomy or physical features!

Sexually a lot of people get overly caught up in “bigger is better” or other size or shape related criteria! Sexually, a lot of variations in size and shape can function well if used well! Sexual energy can be used spiritually and do a lot of good in this world. Too much of an emphasis on biological desires exists in this world with a lot of serious problems resulting from this! Lesbians can give pleasure to each other without the need of the male sexual organ and gay males can do so without the female sexual organ , so having certain types of sexual equipment is not as absolute a requirement for everyone in order to create sexual/spiritual connection as most people would believe! No matter what sexual equipment some one is born with even if it is of the intersex variety can be made to function really well! One has to become more creative and also bring in more of the most important aspect of connecting deeply with another human being which is spiritual. Being to hung up on sex done a certain way can really limit oneself. It is important to understand that sexual expression that harms ones health or wellbeing is also abusive(does harm) to one spiritually and is best avoided ! As one evolves spiritually ones sexual energy will find a lot of better more evolved ways to express itself! Desires that are misdirected or out of control are causing all kinds of harmful addictions in this world with the abuse of body and spirit that comes with it. Abusive relationships often involve sexual addiction or sexual energy misdirected. An inadequate spiritual connection can not be fixed through ones sexual activity with another person no matter how hard one tries to do this.

 

Sexual orientation or attraction issues are a lot more complicated than most people realize! For example some people may even narrow their attraction to things like hair color or other physical features! Size and shape of sexual features can also play too much of a role in choosing a partner. One can screen out a lot of potential relationships based on criterium that is not relevant enough, thus eliminating a lot of those who could be really great life long romantic and spiritual partners! We need to focus on relationships of all types in our lives that are really beneficial to our well being! Spiritually we need to always strive to do that which moves us in a more positive and healthy direction for us and those we connect with in various ways in our lives. We can not eliminate the complexity that is part of life and one becomes more aware of when one evolves further spiritually! Intersex individuals do exist and can not be ignored or just classified as an abnormality! Overly rigid type labels often hold back people’s spiritual development by overly locking themselves into perspectives that limit how well they can perceive how complicated reality really is. As one develops further spiritually one become better able to handle the complexity of the challenging reality we exist in. Our criteria for judging who would work best for us as an intimate partner will evolve as we evolve spiritually!

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by astrogoodwin on June 17, 2019  •  Permalink
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Posted by astrogoodwin on June 17, 2019

https://astrogoodwin.com/2019/06/17/sexual-energy-and-intimacy-is-not-that-limited-by-ones-anatomy-or-physical-features/

Hate is not just the absence of love!

Hate when misdirected can be quite destructive in this world! Hating things that are really wrong with this world helps one become an advocate for reform. Love and hate are opposites and both need to be directed in a way to make positive things happen in this world. Often people love or are attracted to things that are harmful to themselves and others! People often get into all kinds of trouble in this world due to directing their love energy toward people and things that are abusive to their well being. One can not just define one emotion as only positive and another as only negative! We need so much more spiritual/emotional maturity in this world. Emotions power the spiritual and all emotions need to be channeled in a healthier more positive direction! Opposite emotions do exist and both serve a valuable purpose when properly directed spiritually!

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by astrogoodwin on June 16, 2019  •  Permalink
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Posted by astrogoodwin on June 16, 2019

https://astrogoodwin.com/2019/06/16/hate-is-not-just-the-absence-of-love/

The value of providing good spiritual guidance and judgment to others as well as oneself

One has to judge in order to evaluate who to safely and effectively relate to, and how to advise people spiritually who desire your advise. It is true the universe will continue to function well even when you do not interfere with it. You do not need to provide what spiritual help/expertise/evaluations to everyone, since the universe or someone else will provide them with needed lessons that they can learn from anyway. But, those who value and utilize what valuable wisdom you or others have to offer can often avoid costlier mistakes and trauma and advance further spiritually. Many people get stuck in a cycle of abuse that is not very good for their physical/spiritual well being. Learning spiritual lessons can be very slow for some. Healing from past traumas can take a lot of work and time………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….
This world has so many serious problems that will lead to many crises in the future. Those who choose to advance further spiritually and take and give spiritual advise of value .will be in a better position to help others and themselves get through these trying times. Some people may not survive and may need to incarnate somewhere less challenging in the future.  The universe and reality will continue to exist and function as it should spiritually no matter what happens, but it functions even better for those who make the effort to understand it better and perform on a higher level in it spiritually! .We can not ever escape the reality we exist in or the universe that maintains it.   Even death does not provide an escape from this reality/universe and its consequences.  That s why one must make the most of the challenging reality we exist in and not strive to escape from it in this  life or beyond this life.
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by astrogoodwin on April 9, 2019  •  Permalink
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Posted by astrogoodwin on April 9, 2019

https://astrogoodwin.com/2019/04/09/the-value-of-providing-good-spiritual-guidance-and-judgment-to-others-as-well-as-oneself/

Past Traumas left unhealed are holding us back spiritually on this planet

Delusions and unhealed past traumas go together. Drugs and medications can help one live with these unhealed traumas, but often become addictive or dependent on! Traditional religions tend to act like drugs being based more on mythology and the delusions that support them, than by connecting people with hard reality! Our food industry creates refined adulterated foods that taste good, but do not focus on health creating impact. People then no longer can enjoy basic foods that are actually healthy! They are so use to indulging themselves that they are not hungry enough to appreciate real healthy foods! People are more interested in “feeling good” than facing more of reality spiritually and getting real positive results on this planet and the great sense of well being achieving something of great merit produces within oneself.
A lot of people think they can escape their unhealed traumas and the abuse associated with them after death, and have delusionary beliefs(after life theories) that support this! They actually think they can escape the “cycle of abuse” rather than having to do the hard work to heal/change it. I am all about training people in a way to heal them spiritually while helping them improve their spiritual theories/programming so that they can face the heavier dose of reality required in order to face and heal the strong emotional traumas that are holding them back spiritually!
The spiritual is powered by emotions, and we need to become a lot better at handling the whole spectrum of emotions in a positive way, rather than demonizing certain emotions that are not easy to handle. Life is meant to be challenging, and to inspire great achievements. We need to stop intoxicating ourselves with drugs and delusions and develop the spiritual maturity to actually transform the reality around us into something to be proud of!
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by astrogoodwin on April 2, 2019  •  Permalink
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Posted by astrogoodwin on April 2, 2019

https://astrogoodwin.com/2019/04/02/past-traumas-left-unhealed-are-holding-us-back-spiritually-on-this-planet/

Pain is an important and valuable part of life!!!!

One has to face the pain inside oneself in order to heal and get stronger and healthier physically and spiritually! The cycle of abuse toward others and oneself must end on this planet to the degree we are able to do this! We all need to develop the character required to carry our part of the burden and responsibility in this world! Pain can destroy people or make them stronger depending on how well they are able to deal with it avoid its destructive side! Hard work can be quite painful a lot of the time especially when done to improve oneself spiritually! We have so many serious problems on this planet and we need everyone to carry their own weight.
Pain lets one know how hard one can push oneself and get away with it safely! Fear works with the help of pain to enable one to be able to do amazing things and to sense when one has to be extra careful and do ones best to avoid really damaging consequences. The reason I can read my body so well is because I do not use pain killers and focus so hard on reading the signals my body sends me to let me know what I can safely get away with and when I need to focus really hard at adjusting what I am doing in order to avoid injury when exercising extremely hard physically and spiritually!! In order to achieve a lot in life one must be able to put up with a lot of pain and hardship and embrace its character building qualities. One should avoid the negative side of both pain and fear, but understand and value their positive side!
Here is my YouTube video on this subject:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rRnPp4R4eTE&feature=youtu.be
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by astrogoodwin on January 5, 2018  •  Permalink
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Posted by astrogoodwin on January 5, 2018

https://astrogoodwin.com/2018/01/05/pain-is-an-important-and-valuable-part-of-life/

Trauma, denial, distortion of reality and projection of ones flaws on others and outside world.

We live in a world full of all sorts of #abusive behavior some directed toward others and by lashing out at the outside world(society). Some people indulge in reckless behavior; others in bad eating habits or harmful #drug #addictions. Collectively groups of people will get #angry and irrational and often countries will be propelled by this #anger to lash out at other country militarily without first coolly evaluating how to rationally work out their differences. In a world like this trauma will occur an awful lot with the psychological problems that come with it. The cycle of #abuse will continue as the #trauma even when healed physically will often leave #psychological scars and the #denial that comes with not wanting to face the deep #emotions that come with them. This denial and the distortion of reality that comes with it leads to a continuation of abusive behavior in this world. We all are abusive to some degree,since no one is perfect! But, we have a very high level of abusive behavior on this spiritually backward planet that needs to be addressed in order for us to develop the spiritual maturity to deal with the intense problems that living in a very technological advance world presents to us!

    Our spiritual programming determines how well we are able to face reality at its most challenging! If we have spiritual beliefs that tune of out of or devalue part of the reality we exist in, we will weaken our ability to tune into and cope with this reality. Seeing reality from all sides and angles is not easy to do! People often like to see only the part of reality that they are comfortable with based on where they are at psychologically and the impact of past trauma on them. One can not heal and grow further spiritually if one does not face ones flaws and the spiritual theories one has that tend to be supportive of the view of reality ones currently accepts. When ever one spiritually distorts reality one will suffer self abuse and also will be abusive of others. One can feel really justified in being abusive as a result of the denial that becomes part of ones psychology and spiritual state of being.
     One can not advance further spiritually if one is not willing to see ones spiritual/psychological problems and the #spiritual theories that underpin them. If one is locked into some spiritual beliefs as a result of them being supportive of the state of denial that comes with not facing and healing the spiritual/emotional impact of past trauma, it can be quite difficult to advance to a healthier level spiritually! When someone tries to reach these people with the strong spiritual energy and spiritual theories required to help them to heal they will often lash out at that person no matter how rational their presentation is. Irrationality and the distortion of reality is often part of those who have suffered abuse or trauma and not healed psychologically from it. Arrogance and an inability to face ones spiritual shortcomings is what prevents people from being receptive to the type of spiritual help they need. One can not help someone spiritually until they feel that they could benefit from such help. Often it takes a really challenging situation in their life and the hard lessons that come with it to get people to really see their shortcomings and want to spiritually #heal and improve their understanding of reality in a way that will prevent future hard lessons of the same type from happening again!
     The truth is most often in the complicated middle and requires one is able to see things from many angles and sides. One can through really challenging spiritual #meditation type training gain a stronger spiritual grip on reality and enable one to better handle the pain/struggle that often comes with getting more of a grip on reality and the truth that comes with this. #Pain is part of life and must be faced in order to gain more spiritual maturity and connection with reality. Once one has obtained an ability to handle a heavier dose of reality, then one will develop the #intuition required to sense which people are reliable/serious sources and thus become better at determining what sources are unreliable or not solid enough or have a feel to them that do not gibe with your sense of how #reality actually works.
Here is a link to my blog on the meditative/spiritual type training I do:
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by astrogoodwin on July 9, 2017  •  Permalink
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Posted by astrogoodwin on July 9, 2017

https://astrogoodwin.com/2017/07/09/trauma-denial-distortion-of-reality-and-projection-of-ones-flaws-on-others-and-outside-world/

Too much forgiveness can harm ones ability to positively transform this world spiritually!

I forgive people, but I do not forgive the type of spiritual energy that is responsible for all the abusive/destructive behavior that happens in this world. That is why I am a spiritual pioneer working hard to improve the level of spirituality on this planet. I work hard to keep my spiritual energy really healthy and work hard to ensure that unhealthy spiritual energy either stays clear of me, or is accommodating to being transformed by me. I often do have to take on or defend myself from toxic type spiritual energy in order to ensure that the energy close to me is not working against me too much. I am use to a type of spiritual explosive energy happening around me, and because of my training I seem to get positive results despite shocking people and often needing to take a sort of protective cover shortly afterwards. Being a spiritual pioneer does have its dangers, but this world will not be easily transformed, and will not be done by the timid. It will not be easy to improve on the spiritual status quo in this world, but it can be done. But, one has to often be willing to push the edge and handle the danger associated with it in order to really positively transform things in a world that is backward and brutal spiritually. Forgiveness has its place, but to forgive and not try to transform the energy responsible for inadequate spiritual behavior is not a positive thing.

After posting this a person gave this response elsewhere: “Hi Thomas, love your work and posts. I am respectful of your view on forgiveness. I on the other hand believe their are 3 key concepts in which one must master in regards to spirtual mastery. 1. Unconditional love 2. Unconditional acceptance 3. Unconditional forgivness. God loves, accepts and forgives all of us. If we are to truly becone one with god, or enlightened, we must be able to forgive all unconditionally. Again just my opinion and of course your truth is yours and i respect that 🙂 much love brother and i love what you are doing and your leadership in spiritual practices!”

Here was my response to this: I just go with that which works in the real world which I am very strongly connected to because of the extremely rough training I do and the direct experience I have in it. I just do not automatically believe in what is widely circulating in this world psychically and thus has a strong appeal even if it is not well enough in balance with reality. I do forgive people as I clearly state in the post, but do not accept negative/destructive spiritual energy that lead to unhealthy and destructive behavior. I am very healthy physically and spiritually because of the type of spiritual energy I accept and what I do not believe meets my high spiritual standards. I want the best for people, so will not be an enabler of bad conduct and unhealthy habits. My posts need to be read carefully and not quickly dismissed. Spiritual pioneers are often rejected for what they have of value without people taking the time and effort to really understand where they are coming from. It is so easy to just cling to inadequate beliefs without taking the time to explore something new, that is outside of ones comfort zone. We can all get closer to the common truth that govern the common reality we exist in.

I added the extra above because:   I tend to be triggered by others who have differing spiritual theories/beliefs than I do. I do not like to waste anything I write that can further explain where I am coming from. I am programmed in the spiritual theories that I developed to be very effective in helping me and others at coping really well with the common reality all of us share and have impact on. I do not have a lot of other spiritual theories strongly programmed into me, since they would counteract and harm the effectiveness of my own spiritual theories. I do have an intuitive connection to a lot of spiritual theories/beliefs that are out there in the world, but do not have them taking up the important space in my subconscious needed by my own really effective guiding spiritual beliefs. Deep within oneself spiritually is only room for certain core beliefs, and one has to make sure they are the really effective ones. One does not need to be an expert in all spiritual/ religious beliefs/theories that are out there in this world in order to become really advanced in the spiritual area. One actually functions best spiritually when you only retain the best spiritual theories and the reasons why they work better than the others that compete with them for effectiveness in this challenging world we exist in.

Here is a link to my meditative walking blog post, that includes all sorts of other really effective meditative/spiritual training techniques:

https://astrogoodwin.wordpress.com/2016/10/04/meditative-walking-developing-a-stronger-spiritual-connection-with-the-physical/

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by astrogoodwin on December 11, 2016  •  Permalink
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Posted by astrogoodwin on December 11, 2016

https://astrogoodwin.com/2016/12/11/too-much-forgiveness-can-harm-ones-ability-to-positively-transform-this-world-spiritually/

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