I am a Neurologically different Spiritual pioneer that understands that Spiritually and sexuality are very connected. That as you become more advanced Spiritually you will be more able to control all your desires including this very strong one. Studies have shown that orgasms cause the release of a bonding hormone that affects the people that are involved and of course will have strong impact on holding a relationship together at least during the honeymoon period. But relationships too dependent on sex and not enough on a really strong and healthy Spiritual bond can fall apart after a honeymoon period, if a strong Spiritual bond is not present. Sexual affairs will more likely happen if one depends more on a sexual bond, than a spiritual bond. I practice semen retention which means I can control myself sexual extremely well. This type of spiritual control of sexual desire is a spiritual practice done by some really intensely Spiritual people mostly in countries like India in the Far East.

Desires of all kinds have a strong affect on how far one can develope spiritually. The main siritual focus needs to be on healing ones own personal problems so as to develop ones unique skills/abilities that enable one to contribute to making this habitat we exist in a healthier and more fulfilling place for all of it’s spiritual inhabitants. Desires need to be directed in a healthy way so they do not interfer with the process of improving the world that exists for our spiritual benefit and empowerment. Toxic energy and misguided desires and emotions can interfere strongly with obtaining the really healthy mind, body, and spirit required to help us improve our existence and well being here on this Earth..

Since so much toxic spirtual energy exists on this spiritually backwards planet and we live in an advanced technological age, this world has a lot of really complicated and serious problems that need to be addressed. But, harmful addictions caused by messed up spiritual energy are every where. Traditional Religious/Spiritual tend to have an autocratic nature controlling people in a similar way as an addictive drug. Sex can have a similar affect and both can interfere with us channeling our spiritual energy where it is most needed in this planet we all share.

Science has become overbearing and overly confident as it tries to deal with the world’s problems while being strongly limited by it’s tendency to ignore the spiritual while being indirectly affected by the backwards spirtual energy that is dominant here. Science often ignores the spirtual consequences of their actions and the inadequacies they have when it comes to understanding how this universe actually works on the very important spirtual level. How science deal with sexuality and other desires is adversely affected by this limitation.

We are born male or female for a reason. Some people are born physically not clearly of either sex and that is also for a reason. Sexual stereotypes tends to push people of either sex to be imprisoned in certain expectations on how they should act. Unique individuals can feel trapped and want to escape from this. Science will often offer surgery or medications to deal with this. But rushing to surgical or medical remedies can often not the best choice for your future spirtual well being.

We have to make decisions in this spirtually backwards world with lot of serious spirtual awareness in order to get the best result and not allow the messed up spirtual energy around you interfere with making a good judgement. Playing with biology and nature should not be done with out appropriate spiritual awareness of the long term consequences of the action taken.

Being a neurologically different spiritual pioneer, I find that we now live in a time period where the inhabitants of this world tend often to become polarized into extreme and opposing viewpoints. The spiritual must deal with the whole picture. It takes really strong spirtual character to not conform to some group or camp with a limited shared perfective that become attached to the overconfidence that they engender spiritually in their followers. Understanding reality and it’s problems requires seeing things from all angles and perspectives and the serious complexities involved. Advancing future spiritually requires not being addicted to any limited perspectives on this world and to always be willing to further expand ones perspective so as to better see the whole picture.

Healing oneself from past trauma is a constant requirement to spirtual growth. Everything happens for a reason and we must own our past, see the challenge of overcome past problems and abuse as being well worth the effort. We can not solve problems that we can not personally relate to in some way. Overcoming a challenging and toxic past helps one to have the type of character required to tackle the serious problems you personally can most relate to. No one is damaged goods during to what happened to them in the past. Overcoming the challenges that resulted from your past enables one to have an advanced spirtual awareness other often do not. This applies especially to those who dealt with sexual abuse and did the extremely hard spiritual work to heal from it and become extremely good at channeling this energy in a spiritual direction as a result.

To channel my sexual energy spiritually i use meditative breathing techniques, stomach crunches and even leg lifts to control sexual tension. One can mastubate, but in a way to exercise ones sexual energy, but control it by using stomach crunches and tightening and relaxing different muscles or other movements or breathing techniques done in in other forms of meditation. The goal is not orgasm. The goal is becoming comfortable being in an aroused state. I do eat up some of my sexual energy with all the extremely hard physically spiritual training I do, but being healthier can increase one’s sexual energy. Sexual energy is extremely powerful spiritually when channeled that direction.. Having a lot of it can be valuable if one can control it and direct it toward getting a deeper connection spiritually with others and the natural world.