Sexually a lot of people get overly caught up in “bigger is better” or other size or shape related criteria! Sexually, a lot of variations in size and shape can function well if used well! Sexual energy can be used spiritually and do a lot of good in this world. Too much of an emphasis on biological desires exists in this world with a lot of serious problems resulting from this! Lesbians can give pleasure to each other without the need of the male sexual organ and gay males can do so without the female sexual organ , so having certain types of sexual equipment is not as absolute a requirement for everyone in order to create sexual/spiritual connection as most people would believe! No matter what sexual equipment some one is born with even if it is of the intersex variety can be made to function really well! One has to become more creative and also bring in more of the most important aspect of connecting deeply with another human being which is spiritual. Being to hung up on sex done a certain way can really limit oneself. It is important to understand that sexual expression that harms ones health or wellbeing is also abusive(does harm) to one spiritually and is best avoided ! As one evolves spiritually ones sexual energy will find a lot of better more evolved ways to express itself! Desires that are misdirected or out of control are causing all kinds of harmful addictions in this world with the abuse of body and spirit that comes with it. Abusive relationships often involve sexual addiction or sexual energy misdirected. An inadequate spiritual connection can not be fixed through ones sexual activity with another person no matter how hard one tries to do this.

Sexual orientation or attraction issues are a lot more complicated than most people realize! For example some people may even narrow their attraction to things like hair color or other physical features! Size and shape of sexual features can also play too much of a role in choosing a partner. One can screen out a lot of potential relationships based on criterium that is not relevant enough, thus eliminating a lot of those who could be really great life long romantic and spiritual partners! We need to focus on relationships of all types in our lives that are really beneficial to our well being! Spiritually we need to always strive to do that which moves us in a more positive and healthy direction for us and those we connect with in various ways in our lives. We can not eliminate the complexity that is part of life and one becomes more aware of when one evolves further spiritually! Intersex individuals do exist and can not be ignored or just classified as an abnormality! Overly rigid type labels often hold back people’s spiritual development by overly locking themselves into perspectives that limit how well they can perceive how complicated reality really is. As one develops further spiritually one become better able to handle the complexity of the challenging reality we exist in. Our criteria for judging who would work best for us as an intimate partner will evolve as we evolve spiritually!