We have to own our past and the circumstances that we have in the present as a result of it. The Spiritual underlies all of our physical reality and makes it operate the way it should. Spiritual law is always in effect. We are responsible for figuring out what ever situation we find ourselves in. We always have the Spiritual capacity to find a solution that will move us in a better direction Spiritually in the future. The truth can be extremely challenging to find more of. People often get polarized and settle for a partisan or one-sided perspective. They therefore set up automatic conflict with others on an opposite side. This can bring destructive results. Finding the whole truth is extremely difficult and ones mind needs to reside in the complicated middle in order to best see the whole picture.
We are not alone, we exist with other people/spirits similar to us. We need to to work with them to find out more of the truth. When we need help we need to find the right people or organizations that can best help us. We have to be careful about insensitively demanding help from those who are not in a position to properly help us. Some people get in trouble because they try to help others they should not have helped. We have to invest our energy and resources were we can do the most good while not harming are own wellbeing. Enabling people not to face the consequences of their actions can create parasitic people who do not carry their own weight Spiritually and thus pull other people down.
Having a victim mentality can weaken one Spiritually if we are not doing what it takes to get what is required to strengthen our position in life. True victims of injustice do exist. We do need crusaders to insure everyone has a level playing field and opportunity to develop what they have of value to this world. Often those who have gone through the most are able to achieve the most. People who are differently abled often can develop very special and needed abilities if provided the help and respect they need. Everyone has a reason for existing and can be developed into a valuable human resource provided the right investment is made in them. We all are here for a reason.
Just remembered: Everything happens for a reason. Spiritual law is always in effect. When two sides or more are in conflict, all sides will have some truth in their perspective. Violence and destructive/toxic behavior is not healthy. We need to try to see what all sides see, and do the hard Spiritual and mental work to put together the whole picture and find solutions to problems or conflicts that way.