We live in a spiritually backwards world, where abuse and victimization is to be expected. People who abuse or assault others would like to believe that there are no true victims except when they become a victim as a consequence of their own misbehavior.

People who do not work hard to become stronger spiritually through improving their spiritual theories and training techniques will not have the spiritual strength/character or intuition to defend themselves from harm or stay clear of it. Most people in this world victimize themselves due to the bad habits they maintain. Enabling bad habits or abusive behavior in others is a form of self abuse.

Giving to others that are not worth while causes is a waste of resources that could be used to help others that are seriously working hard to improve their situation spiritually in a way that they can themselves become a positive force for good in this world. Do not waste your valuable spiritual energy on those that will abuse the effort or resources you are able to contribute. Do not just throw money away, but make sure you invest in worthwhile causes whether they are charitable institutions or individuals.

Some people will often play victim in order to get others to support their bad behavior or habits, rather than do the very hard spiritual work required by them to improve their situation, so that they can actually become a contributing member of our society, and able to help others also move in a more positive spiritual direction.