I am so unique that not many people can understand me very well and most won’t make the effort. My survival in this world has always required i pick my friends very carefully! I do not need people connected with me that drain my energy and offer little value in return. We only have so much energy to offer those we are connected with, so it helps to choose friends that support us and give us a good return on what we are able to offer them. Spiritually we are a lot more connected to those we are invested in emotionally than most people understand. Change our friends or loved ones we change ourselves, and changing ourselves requires we adjust our friends and loved ones.